E-mail I sent to Howie’s teachers this morning:
Just wanted to give you a heads up with Howie and the upcoming hurricane. Howie is very sensitive to big changes in barometric pressure. I am as well but while it manifests itself in the form of a headache for me for Howie it causes big behavior changes. His vestibular system gets rocked when the pressure drops. I know it sounds weird, but we’ve seen it several times, including the last hurricane and that summer when the tornadoes rolled through western MA. It’s usually about 24-48 hours before the actual weather event comes in.
With this upcoming hurricane, I just read that the pressure will drop incredibly low. Based on the track of the storm, Sunday is more likely to be Howie’s harder day, but he could start feeling it as soon as today and into Monday. If you see extra stimming, or he seems out of whack, it’s probably that.
Hopefully we won’t be hit too hard! At least it’s not snow!
These are the types of e-mails I write lately.
The news today is full of reports of a “Frankenstorm” as Hurricane Sandy heads towards the east coast. Forecasters are calling for an incredible drop in barometric pressure as it hits land sometime late Monday and into Tuesday.
And so I write e-mails about meteorology and storm tracking and sensory processing disorder.
I know that for some people this connection makes no sense. As in “really? The weather affects your kid’s behavior? Come on. Weather changes were something that made old people complain about their aches and pains, but it’s not really real. “
It’s just an excuse for his bad behavior.
I’ve been at this long enough with my kid to tell you. It’s real.
I get headaches and neck aches right before a storm comes through. When Hurricane Irene passed near us last summer, it felt like someone was standing on my head.
I can verbalize it. I can explain what is happening and why. And people understand it.
My son can’t explain it why all of a sudden he needs to run laps or crash into things or spin in circles and stim. His reactions to the same trigger look like behavior problems.
It sounds like hooey to someone who doesn’t live it. But I’ve tracked it. Storms, moon phase changes, illness…all these things affect my son’s sensory system.
They probably affect all of our sensory systems. But most people have learned to cope with how we’re feeling. A few extra Tylenol. Or a nap.
Howie is still learning what makes him more regulated. He knows what activities make him feel better but he has yet to figure out the trigger or how to do it most “appropriately” for the setting.
I’m not making excuses for how he’s acting. If he’s being unsafe or not able to be in the classroom then he needs to be removed, redirected and helped. Unacceptable behavior is still unacceptable behavior.
I will however be proactive in helping those around him understand what is a sensory response versus what is a behavior so he doesn’t get into trouble for something he can’t control.
So that maybe he gets an extra sensory break during the day. Or two visits to the OT room versus just one. Or just a well trained eye on him looking for signs of discomfort and dysregulation.
And hopefully we can teach him why he’s feeling the way he does so that next time, he has the tools he needs to cope and feel better.
So I send e-mails warning of Hurricane Howie as Hurricane Sandy approaches.
At home, we’re stocking up on Stonyfield yogurts, fruit leather and flameless candles and padding the house with pillows and bean bag chairs for safe crashing.
Getting ready to weather any storm that comes our way.
“Squalls out on the gulf stream,
Big storms coming soon.
I passed out in my hammock,
God, I slept way past noon.
Stood up and tried to focus,
I hoped I wouldn’t have to look far.
I knew I could use a Bloody Mary,
So I stumbled next door to the bar.” – Trying To Reason With Hurricane Season by Jimmy Buffett