How are you ten years old?
I feel like I need to write something poignant. Something meaningful.
Something about how you changed everything for me.
Something about how from the very moment they handed you to me, I knew you would teach me more than I could ever teach you.
You taught me that you have more understanding of what it means to be a big brother than most siblings do.
You taught me that being different isn’t wrong. And showed me through your paper snowflakes.
You taught me it was okay to panic about having your brother in school with you because it was out of love and care and your need to protect him.
You taught me the way out of the meltdown the day when I was stuck in a moment.
You taught me that you need me to advocate just as fiercely for you as I do for your brothers and that you feel the stress in the house just as we do.
You taught me to put the spotlight back on you and showed me how to recognize when you’re in pain.
You taught me that your brother deserved to know that he was autistic because you knew he deserved to know why he was special.
You taught me that sometimes a brother knows best and wowed me with your “inventions” to help him, and.
How are you ten years old today?
The title of this post is “The Man That You’ve Become”. It seems an odd title perhaps for a kid just turning ten.
People say you have an old soul. You have had to grow up fast here. Your interests are “older” than many kids your age.
But you are still my little guy. My buddy. The amazing big brother who will still sit and watch “Blues’ Clues” and run laps around the house and pretend to lose the race.
I have no doubt that you will change the world.
You’ve already changed our little corner of it simply by being you.
Happy Birthday to my favorite ten year old.
“Big wheels, hot wheels
Little trucks and cars
Skinned knees, climbing trees
Wishing on the stars
Moments may be lost somewhere in time
But the sweetest memories are never left behind
Now you’ve grown so fine
And come so far…” – The Man That You’ve Become by Molly Pasutti